The Spiritual Side of Home Buying
- Dehvon Davies
- Mar 18
- 5 min read
Updated: Apr 17
Buying a home is often seen as a financial milestone, but what if it’s also a spiritual journey? From the energy of the space to the pull of your intuition, every step of the process can connect you to something deeper—yourself, your loved ones, and even the land itself. In this blog, we’ll explore how finding a home can be a transformative experience, one that aligns your outer world with your inner self.
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The Energy of The Space
When you first walk into a home, take a moment to notice how it makes you feel—calm, energized, or maybe even a little off. This isn’t just about how the home looks; it’s also about the energy of the space. Think about how natural light, open layouts, and good airflow make a home feel welcoming and peaceful. These elements are more than just visually appealing—they actually help us feel happy and more at ease. The ancient Chinese practice of Feng Shui offers guidelines on how to harmonize the energy of a space. Which can be spiritually nurturing in creating a happy home. Below is a simple living room guide on creating positive energy flow.
The Destiny of the Location
Have you ever felt drawn to a specific neighborhood or type of land? Maybe you love the idea of living near trees, a flowing stream, or even a hiking trail. Many people feel a strong connection to certain locations, even if they can’t quite explain why. If a location feels special to you, explore that feeling—it might be exactly where you’re meant to be. Take time to reflect on what you love about a location to connect to the deeper meaning for you. If you need a good place to reflect in Dallas-Fort Worth, check out this hand-curated list of nature trails. Be sure to stay safe during your visit.
The Sanctuary Spaces
When my clients and I look for a home, we're not just looking for a house—we're also looking for a place where they can relax and enjoy the things that matter most to them. When searching for your home, think about where you’ll spend your downtime. Many people want a special spot in or around their home where they can unwind and reflect. Whether it’s a cozy spot near a window, a man cave, balcony, or serene garden, a space that helps you feel calm and refreshed can turn your home into your personal retreat. The graphic below shows some activities you can do to recharge in your sanctuary space.
Your Guiding Intuition
There’s something special about the moment a home buyer realizes they’ve found “the one.” That’s the power of intuition's guidance. It's our inner voice guiding us to the right choice at the right time. While it might seem mysterious, intuition is actually your brain quickly processing your memories, experiences, and needs to help you decide. That’s why people say, “trust your gut.”
Here are a few tips to help you tune into your intuition:
Know the difference between a gut feeling and fear. A gut feeling feels calm and certain, while fear often feels rushed or panicked.
Practice with small decisions. Start by trusting your instincts on everyday choices, like what to eat or wear.
Try the snap judgment test. Write down a big question (e.g., “Is this the right home for me?”) and list “yes” or “no” as answers. Walk away, come back later, and circle your first instinct. It might surprise you!
Trusting our intuition can help us make decisions that just feel right. Source: https://hbr.org/2022/03/how-to-stop-overthinking-and-start-trusting-your-gut
The Inner Manifestation
You’ve probably heard the term “manifestation,” but what does it really mean? At its core, it’s about believing in something so strongly that you take steps to make it happen. For some, it’s faith; for others, it’s visualizing their goals and staying positive no matter what.
When it comes to buying a home, manifestation can mean doing the work—improving your credit, saving money, and working with a great realtor (hi!), but it also means staying hopeful and persistent, even when the process feels tough. If you hit a roadblock, remind yourself that what’s meant for you will find its way to you, no matter what. Keep your vision alive through prayer, active meditation, vision boards, mind movies or simply by picturing yourself in your dream home.
When you combine an inner belief with practical steps, there’s no doubt—you will make your dream of homeownership a reality. And I’ll be there to help you every step of the way.
The Generational Healing
Buying a home isn’t just a personal achievement—it’s a gift to your family, both now and in the future. When your loved ones see you reach this milestone, it can ease their worries and fill them with pride and hope. A home is more than a place to live; it’s a way to build stability, security, and opportunities for future generations.
In many ways, a home ties your family’s past, present, and future together. It’s a reminder of where you’ve come from, what you’ve overcome, and the legacy you’re creating. By owning a home, you’re not just investing in a property—you’re investing in your family’s story.
The Happy Home
Finally, your home is more than just a house—it’s a reflection of who you are and what matters most to you. When I help clients find a home, I’m not just helping them buy a property; I’m helping them create a space where they can grow, heal, and thrive.
After closing on your home, take the time to make it truly yours. Whether it’s painting, cleaning, or making small repairs, these steps help turn a house into a home. Think of it as starting with a clean slate—a fresh foundation for your family’s memories and dreams. Below, you’ll find some tips to create a happy, welcoming space for everyone who walks through your door.
Source: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/happier-at-home/
Remember this, the right home will call to you. In the modern age, home-buying is often seen as a financial or practical decision, but when we include a spiritual mindset, it becomes something much more profound. It becomes a journey of alignment—with our energy, our intuition, and the greatest path for ourselves and our loved ones.
As a Realtor, there’s no greater joy than witnessing that moment a client knows they've found "the one". It’s a reminder that home isn’t just a place; it’s a feeling. And when you find it, you’ll know you’ve found something truly sacred. Please always feel free to reach out to me with questions and support for your home buying journey.
Cheers to finding your land, your sanctuary, your home. 💫
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